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November 26, 2006

The Philippine STAR, Opinion Page

Farewell to My

Brother Max

 

The sudden departure of my dear friend Max shocked me no end, and to this moment I still have to get over the staggering fact.  Still, I had to get myself together and write this about a man whom I have come to love and respect over the years that I have known him.

I first met Max Soliven 35 years ago at my wedding.  He and his wife Precious were there, but even before that, I have already become acquainted with him during my school days at the Ateneo, where the teachers would always talk about this remarkable journalist whose writings were a "must read."  Curious, I started reading Max Soliven and ever since then, I found myself following his articles, first at the Manila Chronicle, then at the Manila Times.  I was so fascinated with his writing style, mincing no words and not hesitating, when occasion warrants, to—if I may quote that oft-repeated phrase—"go for the jugular."  I was amazed at the breadth and depth of his knowledge particularly of politics and world history.  He was like a storehouse of information that reading him was always an edifying experience.

Perhaps this is really no surprise considering that Max spent many years as a foreign correspondent, in his younger days traveling to the hottest and most troubled spots in the globe covering such events as the Vietnam War, and getting an exclusive with former Chinese Premier Chou en Lai when China first tested a nuclear bomb in Lop Nor in 1964.  He has rubbed elbows with kings and presidents, mingled with rogues and heroes, renegades and soldiers.  That's why, when I actually met him for the first time, I was almost overwhelmed by his presence.  I have known Max since then, and through the years, he has become one of my dearest and closest friends.

When Ferdinand Marcos declared martial law in 1972, Max was one of the journalists immediately arrested because his writing at the Manila Times had become too abrasive for comfort.  He was incarcerated along with Ninoy Aquino, languishing in jail for three months before he was finally released on probation.  After his release, we invited Max Soliven to join us regularly at our breakfast club at the Mandarin at a time when it was not fashionable to be seen with him.  But I was just glad to have him as my friend, so much so that it did not matter if he was considered an outcast at the time.  Although Max and I did not get to see much of each other later, we kept in touch through the years and met up again in 1999 shortly after Joseph Estrada won the presidential elections.

Max loved this country very much, so much so that he would roar out in frustration and sometimes be moved to tears, especially during the times when he felt this country was going nowhere, its leaders deaf and blind to what was needed to lift the country up from the dumps.  And he knew whereof he spoke, covering nine presidential elections during his lifetime, and having known nine presidents including Gloria Macapagal-Arroyo whom he knew when she was but a nine-year-old girl.  That's why even if he came from Ilocos, a true-blue "saluyut" as Max loved to call himself, he went against Marcos because of his deep conviction that Marcos would not be good for the country.

But what really struck me about Max is his fierce loyalty to friends.  He was not one who would discard you or let you down during critical moments.  He was never the type who would remember you only when you were up.  If Max Soliven became your friend, he would defend you to the bitter end come hell or high water.  There was no one who could sow intrigues between Max and those he regarded as close friends, no matter how hard some people tried.  That was the kind of man he was.  Yet, in the same token, if you earned Max Soliven's ire and he became your enemy, he will go after you with all the force and fury of a hurricane.  With Max, there were no half measures.  It was either black or white.  There was never a gray area with him.  He was a man who knew no fear, who was steadfast in his beliefs, who measured courage by having no ifs and buts.  No doubt, he was a man of passion, who would not hesitate to blast away at anyone who needed to have some sense banged into his head.

I remember how Max would often tell me that it was better to be feared than loved, but I believe he said that from the perspective of a man who loved this country so much, knowing that more often than not, it was necessary to instill fear in anyone whom he thought was not doing right for this country.  But I could say with all certainty that Max was loved.  He had that kind of charm that endeared him to people, leaving them basking in his presence.  Whenever he dropped by our Stargate office, employees would cluster towards him and he would exchange pleasantries, greeting them by name, asking how they were, jokingly admonishing them to "be good, and don't do anything I wouldn't."

Max undoubtedly liked being with people, but there was no question that he loved to travel.  He once told me that there are a thousand places on this earth to visit, but he has only covered 400 of them, and there are 600 more to explore.  He loved visiting places, and there was no doubt traveling stimulated him, for he was happiest when exploring and discovering new things even in places where he had been to.

Max Soliven was my mentor and my closest friend.  But most of all, he was like a brother to me.  He is the last of the lions of journalism, that extraordinary breed of men who could make even stones bleed with tears with the zeal of their writing.  He is a big loss to journalism, but much more so to this country.

We will miss you, brother.  But I know that wherever you may be, you would still be furiously banging the keys on your old, outdated Olympus typewriter.  For I know that you are a newsman through and through; you wouldn't stop until your heart stopped.  I will see you again in our next life.  But for now, farewell, my dear brother Max.

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